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不成功的55种托词——《思考致富》作者希尔一语中的

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小编摘要:制造托词来解释失败,这已是美国全国性的问题。这种习惯与人类的历史同样古老,这是成功的致命伤!为何人们不放弃他们喜爱的借口?答案是明显的。人们之所以会保护他们的托词,是因为托词是他们制造的!



不成功的人有一种共同的性格特征。他们知道失败的原因,并且对于自己有着他们认为的一套托词。
People who do not succeed have one distinguishing trait in common. They know all the reasons for failure, and have what they believe to be air-tight alibis to explain away their own lack of achievement. Some of these alibis are clever, and a few of them are justifiable by the facts.
有些托词是聪明的,少数托词由事实证明是有道理的,但是托词不能当钱用!世界只希望知道一件事:你成功了没有?
But alibis cannot be used for money. The world wants to know only one thing—HAVE YOU ACHIEVED SUCCESS?
一位性格分析家编了一份最常用的托词的单子。你在读这份单子时,请细心检讨你自己,从而判定这些托词中有多少是你自己常用的。一旦知道了自己的虚伪与无能后,你将会毫不犹豫地抛弃之,从而更加肯定自己的能力,向事业冲刺。这55 种托词是--
A character analyst compiled a list of the most commonly used alibis. As you read the list, examine yourself carefully, and determine how many of these alibis, if any, are your own property. Remember, too, the philosophy makes every one of these alibis obsolete.
如果我没有家室之累......
IF I didn't have a wife and family . . .
如果我有足够的关系......
IF I had enough "pull" . . .
如果我有钱......
IF I had money . . .
如果我受过良好的教育......
IF I had a good education . . .
如果我能找到一份工作......
IF I could get a job . . .
如果我身体健康......
IF I had good health . . .
如果我有充裕的时间......
IF I only had time . . .
如果时代好一点......
IF times were better . . .
如果别人了解我......
IF other people understood me . . .
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IF conditions around me were only different . . .
如果我的环境不同......
IF I could live my life over again . . .
如果我能再一次重生......
IF I did not fear what "THEY" would say . . .
如果我不怕别人会说什么......
IF I had been given a chance . . .
如果给我那个机会的话......
IF I now had a chance . . .
如果现在我有机会的话......
IF other people didn't "have it in for me" . . .
如果别人不怀恨我的话......
IF nothing happens to stop me . . .
如果不是发生事情使我停顿的话......
IF I were only younger . . .
如果我年纪轻一点......
IF I could only do what I want . . .
如果能照我的意思去做......
IF I had been born rich . . .
如果我生在富有的人家......
IF I could meet "the right people" . . .
如果不是所遇"非人"的话......
IF I had the talent that some people have . . .
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IF I dared assert myself . . .
如果我有别人的聪明才智......
IF I only had embraced past opportunities . . .
如果我敢自作主张......
IF people didn't get on my nerves . . .
如果我能把握过去的机会......
IF I didn't have to keep house and look after the children . . .
如果别人不惹我的话......
IF I could save some money . . . IF the boss only appreciated me . . .
如果我不必料理家务和照顾孩子......
IF I only had somebody to help me . . .
如果我能有点储蓄的话......
IF my family understood me . . .
如果老板赏识我的话......
IF I lived in a big city . . .
如果有人拉我一把的话......
IF I could just get started . . .
如果我的家人谅解我......
IF I were only free . . .
如果我住在大城市里的话......
IF I had the personality of some people . . .
如果我能早一步的话......
IF I were not so fat . . . IF my talents were known . . .
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IF I could just get a "break" . . .
如果我不受拘束的话......
IF I could only get out of debt . . .
如果我有某些人的性格......
IF I hadn't failed . . .
如果我不是太胖的话......
IF I only knew how . . .
如果别人了解我的才华......
IF everybody didn't oppose me . . .
如果我走运的话......
F I didn't have so many worries . . . I
如果我有负责任的能力的话......
F I could marry the right person . . .
如果我不失败的话......
IF people weren't so dumb . . .
如果我知道诀窍......
IF my family were not so extravagant . . .
如果大家不反对我......
IF I were sure of myself . . .
如果我没有重重的顾虑......
IF luck were not against me . . .
如果我没有选错结婚的对象......
IF I had not been born under the wrong star . . .
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IF it were not true that "what is to be will be" . . .
如果我不浪费的话......
IF I did not have to work so hard . . .
如果别人不是太难合作的话......
IF I hadn't lost my money . . .
如果我相信自己的话......
IF I lived in a different neighborhood . . .
如果我的运气不坏的话......
IF I didn't have a "past" . . .
如果我不是生来命苦的话......
IF I only had a business of my own . . .
如果我能获得多些安慰的话......
IF other people would only listen to me . . .
如果我不必太辛苦的话......
IF * * * and this is the greatest of them all * * * I had the courage to see myself as I really am, I would find out what is wrong with me, and correct it, then I might have a chance to profit by my mistakes and learn something from the experience of others, for I know that there is something WRONG with me, or I would now be where I WOULD HAVE BEEN IF I had spent more time analyzing my weaknesses, and less time building alibis to cover them.
如果我不亏损的话......
Building alibis with which to explain away failure is a national pastime. The habit is as old as the human race, and is fatal to success! Why do people cling to their pet alibis? The answer is obvious. They defend their alibis because THEY CREATE them! A man's alibi is the child of his own imagination. It is human nature to defend one's own brain-child.
如果我生活环境不同的话......
Building alibis is a deeply rooted habit. Habits are difficult to break, especially when they provide justification for something we do. Plato had this truth in mind when he said, "The first and best victory is to conquer self. To be conquered by self is, of all things, the most shameful and vile."
如果我没有过去那段生活的话......
Another philosopher had the same thought in mind when he said, "It was a great surprise to me when I discovered that most of the ugliness I saw in others, was but a reflection of my own nature." "It has always been a mystery to me," said Elbert Hubbard, "why people spend so much time deliberately fooling themselves by creating alibis to cover their weaknesses. If used differently, this same time would be sufficient to cure the weakness, then no alibis would be needed. "
如果我有自己经营的事业......
In parting, I would remind you that "Life is a checkerboard, and the player opposite you is TIME. If you hesitate before moving, or neglect to move promptly, your men will be wiped off the board by TIME. You are playing against a partner who will not tolerate INDECISION!"
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Previously you may have had a logical excuse for not having forced Life to come through with whatever you asked, but that alibi is now obsolete, because you are in possession of the Master Key that unlocks the door to Life's bountiful riches.
如果别人肯听我的意见......
The Master Key is intangible, but it is powerful! It is the privilege of creating, in your own mind, a BURNING DESIRE for a definite form of riches. There is no penalty for the use of the Key, but there is a price you must pay if you do not use it. The price is FAILURE. There is a reward of stupendous proportions if you put the Key to use. It is the satisfaction that comes to all who conquer self and force Life to pay
如果......
唉,朋友,你还要说什么呢?所有这些都只能证明你是弱者!还不行动,更待何时?如果人有勇气正视自我,看清自我,则完全可以发现错误,并加以矫正。
制造托词来解释失败,这已是美国全国性的问题。这种习惯与人类的历史同样古老,这是成功的致命伤!为何人们不放弃他们喜爱的借口?答案是明显的。人们之所以会保护他们的托词,是因为托词是他们制造的!
制造借口是人类根深蒂固的习惯,这种习惯是难于打破的,尤其是我们要以此作为某事的借口之时。柏拉图深明此理,所以他说:"征服自己是最大的胜利,被自己所征服是最大的耻辱和邪恶。"
另一位哲学家也有相同的看法,他说:"当我发现别人最丑陋的一面正是我自己本性的反映时,我大为惊讶。"艾乐勃·赫巴德说:"我对自己一向是个谜,为何人们用这么多的时间制造借口以掩饰他们的弱点,并且故意愚弄自己。如果用在正确的用途上,这些时间足够矫正这些弱点,那时便不需要借口了。"
在此,我要提醒读者:生命好比棋局,你的对手则是时间,如果你举棋不定,或者不能迅速行动,则到时候你在棋盘上的棋子将会被吃光。同你下棋的是一位残忍而冷漠无情的对手!
在以往你也许有一种合理的借口,不去追求你的理想,但是这一借口现在已经抛弃,因为你已经有了启开人生财富之门的万能钥匙。
这把万能钥匙是无形的,但却是强大有力的!对你而言,它是所有欲望的金杖。使用这把钥匙,不会受到处罚;但是如果你不使用它,则必须付出代价。这个代价就是失败。如果你使用这把钥匙,将会获得极大的报酬。凡是征服自己,并使生命付出所求的人,都会得到这种满足。
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2011-02-25 13:06 编辑:kuaileyingyu
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