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传递善良,从孩子开始

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曾经有一位声名卓著的内科医师,他管理着一个颇负盛名的内科实习生项目,对医学院学生毕业时应该知道的事,他是这么说的:“他们应该有能力胜任医生这个职位,能够给人做全身检查,能够根据病情开出诊断结果和治疗方案,并且做这些事情时都带着善意。”
I once heard a distinguished physician who ran a prestigious residency program in internal medicine tell a committee studying what undergraduate medical students should know when they graduate from medical school, "They should know how to take a history, do a physical examination, come up with a diagnostic and treatment plan, and do it all with kindness."
我想我们希望孩子独立后能够做的事情有:自力更生;有稳固的婚姻;并且“都带着善意”。
Extrapolating to what we want our children to be able to do when they are on their own I think we want them to be able to take care of themselves, earn a living, enter into a committed relationship, and "do it all with kindness."
我们怎样把孩子培养成一个善良的人呢?
How do we raise a kind kid?
●对孩子和蔼可亲。
o Treat the child kindly.
●确保让你的孩子看到你友善对待他人。
o Be sure the child sees us treat others kindly.
●鼓励孩子好好地看待自己!有时,我们越想让孩子干什么,越会产生反效果。我们应该积极地引导他们,不要让敏感地孩子认定自己很糟糕,即使孩子做了什么错事。
o Encourage the child to think kindly of himself or herself. Sometimes in our zeal to teach our children how to behave we find ourselves stressing the negatives. We must also accentuate the positive and make sure that a sensitive young child doesn't conclude he or she is bad even though the behavior might be.
●不要让孩子沉迷于电视,电脑等。当大部分时间都由我们自己支配时,我们就没法和别人交往互动(更别说带着善意去交往了)。
o Discourage those aspects of family life that increase self-absorption like TV, excess computer usage, consumerism. When we spend most of the time by ourselves, interacting with others at all (let alone doing it kindly) is less likely.
●在家里尽量避免过多的噪音,放慢生活节奏,这样你和孩子就不会一直感到疲倦。当你老是弄出刺耳的声音时,你很难变得和善。
o Eliminate excess noise and slow down the pace of your family life so that you and the kids are not frazzled all the time. It's harder to be nice when your jangled..
●教导孩子学会为他人着想。如果只想着自己和自己的需求,我们会很容易忽视自己其实是多么的幸运。当你要去食品救济站 (the Food Bank)给穷人分发粮食时,带上你的孩子,让他知道我们必须学会帮助他人。不管是在家里还是在学校,鼓励孩子做社区服务,当然要确定孩子的学校有社区服务计划。
o Teach your children the value of thinking about others. If we only deal with ourselves and our needs it's easy to lose sight of how blessed we are compared to many others in our community. Bring the kids when you drop food off at the Food Bank so they understand that people must help each other. Encourage your children to do community service they are able to do at school and at home. Make sure your child's school has community service programs.
●教导孩子学会与不幸的人一起分享美好。把万圣节的糖带到社区中心,为那些没有礼物的孩子准备一份礼物。鼓励孩子把他们十分之一的零花钱用于慈善。
o Encourage sharing with those less fortunate. Take Halloween candy to a community center, have each child wrap a gift for a child who would not otherwise get a Christmas present. Have children set aside 10% of their allowance for charity.
●在家里与人谈话要和气。让孩子看到你友善地面对粗鲁的语言,而不是恶狠狠的反击。
o Talk kindly to each other in your home. Let your children see you react to rudeness with a kind word instead of a retaliatory retort.
善良是能传染的,让我们把善良传遍人间!
Kindness is contagious. Infect a lot of people with it!
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2010-05-17 22:40 编辑:kuaileyingyu
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