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初次约会时不能说的七件事

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小编摘要:有没有过这样的经历,第一次约会感觉良好却没有下文,却不知道自己为什么会被判出局。事情的真相可能是你踩中了对方的雷点但自己浑然不知。以下七个话题绝对就是雷点……



雷点一

"Financially, I'm doing great/awful."

“在用钱方面,我比较……”——别谈钱!

Many people draw conclusions about others based on their income, investments, family wealth (or poverty), and so on. You want to be evaluated on who you are—your personality, beliefs, ambitions—not your income-generating potential. This goes for in-depth conversation that may conspicuously point out your wealth. (“I do like to summer at my home in San-Tropez.”)


雷点二:

"My last relationship was a disaster."

“我的上一场恋爱简直糟透了。”——别谈过去的感情!

Less history equals more mystery, or something to that effect. There is no need to go in-depth about how you were wronged or who you may have wronged (oops!) during a first date. Try being a good listener and finding out all about your date, rather than filling the hour with romantic horror stories. It’s often tempting to fall into stories of horrible dates, as we all have them, but if you’re not careful one of those stories may say more about you than your bad date partner.


雷点三:

 "I did want to tell you a dark secret..."

“我想告诉你一个秘密。。”——别那么快完全信任别人!

This may seem obvious, but you can not trust someone you just met with really personal information. Give them time to prove their trust worthiness, and keep it light on that first encounter. There is no “full disclosure” rule in effect on a first date. You have the right to withhold almost every unflattering fact until it is established that you like each other and want to pursue things.


雷点四:

"I'm in recovery."

“我正在恢复中。”——别急着展露自己脆弱的一面。

Many of us have them and deal with them and are proud of overcoming personal demons – but it is best to wait a  bit before revealing this particular piece of sensitive information. Again, keeping it fun and light on a first date is highly recommended! Of course, it may come up, and that’s fine. (“Oh, do you not want any wine with dinner?”) Just don’t feel that you have a responsibility to share this detail.

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2012-03-21 13:27 编辑:tinna_mm
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