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避免吵架的秘诀

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小编摘要:人在气头上什么难听的话都说的出来,要息怒呀,本文列出可以帮你避免吵架的秘诀......

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人在气头上什么难听的话都说的出来,要息怒呀,本文列出可以帮你避免吵架的秘诀......

吵架

These strategies can stop a fight before it starts.

1. See things from your partner’s point of view.

2. Count to 50 before you say anything incendiary. This pause will help you calm down just long enough to think better of it.

3. Don’t throw verbal bombs. Avoid put-downs, personal attacks, judgments, criticism, and blaming — as well as sulking, interrupting, and stomping out of the room.

4. Ask yourself if you can — and should — solve the problem on your own.

5. Skip heavy conversations before breakfast and from 11 a.m. to 12 p.m. and 3:30 p.m. to 6 p.m. — because nobody should argue on an empty stomach. And ban problem-solving talks after about 8 p.m. Fatigue starts many fights!

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2011-11-16 13:11 编辑:kuaileyingyu
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  • yes,good stratigy for us to calm down befor a fight.Every one may get angry about certain person or certain stuff,But what's different between people is that somebody can control their anger,some can not ,and the latter seems to let it go worse.But fiece arguement can never settle anything down,it can only worsen the problem.

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  • yes

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