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爱情杀手:怎么就能不爱了?

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小编摘要:爱情是最美的,也是最伤人的…

 

Very often, we find that two people who come together out of love grow apart as the years go by. Why does this happen?

我们身边经常会看到这样的一对:他们因为爱情走到了一起,却在多年后分开了。为什么会发生这样的事儿?

Let's say you planted a coconut tree and a mango tree in your garden when they were young saplings, and they were the same height. You thought they would get along pretty well, a great love affair! And if both of them remained stunted and never grew, they would remain compatible. But if both of them grow to their full potential, they will grow to different heights, shapes and possibilities。

我来打个比方吧:你在花园里种了一棵椰子树和芒果树树苗,它们栽下去的时候高度相同。你以为它们会相处得很好,多好的一对啊。的确,如果它们都发育不良长不大,它们彼此会相处得很好。可是要是他们发挥着充分的潜能生长着,那它们会长成不同的高度和形状,就会有许许多多的可能。

If you are looking for sameness between two people, the relationship will always fall apart. After all, a man and a woman come together because they are different. So it is the differences that brought you together, and the differences may become starker and more manifest as one grows. Unless you learn to enjoy the differences as you grow, falling apart or growing apart will naturally happen. If you are expecting both people to grow in the same direction and in the same way, that is unfair to both people. It will curtail and suffocate both of their lives. Whether you fall apart in years, in months or in days simply depends on how fast you are growing。

如果你总是想找到两个人间的共同之处,那这段关系多半会要无疾而终的。男人和女人走到一起正是因为彼此间的不同。是这些差异让彼此吸引走到一起,而这些差异随着每个人的成长也会越发突出和明显。如果你做不到享受彼此在成长的过程中越来越大的差异,那么你们就很自然会出现隔阂,甚至分手。如果你期望两个人都能朝着同一个方向用同样的方式成长,这对两个人都是不公平的,这也会压抑和剥夺彼此的生活乐趣。所以分开只是时间问题,你们的爱情是有几年、几个月还是几天的生命,只是取决于你们成长的速度有多快。

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2011-10-31 13:46 编辑:crystal156
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