Nowadays, campus love is popular. Some college teachers argue that students should give up love for the sake of learning. They maintain that love is time consuming and influences one’s learning. Some students, however, hold that a student who falls in love will study harder and will make greater progress. They don't believe that a person in love lags behind in his studies.
There are different kinds of love on campus. Some students regard love as killing time or adding color; some are pragmatic, thinking it's difficult to find a better partner after graduation; the purpose of others is for seeking the impetus of study. Anyhow, far away from home and alone, seeking friendship, understanding and love, the boys and girls easily find comfort and appreciation from one another.
As a mater of fact, love is a sharp double-bladed knife. Having it will make you very happy; while losing it, you always feel disappointed and depressed. When the bond of love broken, going on studying as usual or sinking lament or even being crazy depend on us. We will not let romantic entanglement interfere( with our studies.
Love is a natural and quiet. During the process of love we will experience romantic love, frustrating love and critical love and real love. True love will overcome our pain and dismay, warm our heart, and spark our spirit with delight forces but not resistance.
1. lag behind 落后
If your payments of rent lag behind, you will be asked to leave.
Be modest, otherwise you will lag behind.
2. pragmatic 实际的,实用主义的
I would define him as a pragmatic realist,tough,disciplined,dedicated and willing to take responsibility.
Took a bookish rather than a pragmatic approach in solving the problem.
3. impetus 动力,推动力
The historic strike gave an enormous impetus to the whole American labor movement.
The present conflict may provide fresh impetus for peace talk.
4. lament 悲叹,悔恨,恸哭
A poem or song composed especially as a lament for a deceased person.
Short pleasure, long lament.