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【双语】真朋友的10个黄金准则

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小编摘要:朋友使我们生活中必不可少的伙伴,是我们同甘共苦的互勉者,是我们前行路上的同路人。看看真朋友的10个黄金准则,你都做到了吗?

 

真朋友的10个黄金准则

1-Honesty 诚实

A true friend is always honest no matter what.
真朋友无论任何情况都坦诚相待。

It is your duty to tell the truth, even when you know that the truth may hurt and possibly even cost you your friendship (which it won’t if you follow the other 9 rules below).
真朋友有义务说真心话,尽管忠言逆耳,尽管会失去朋友(但只要你遵守以下9项交友之道,朋友是不会离开你的)。

Never take something without permission, even if you know that your friend will be okay with it. Just ask for permission first.
朋友的东西绝对不能不予取。尽管你知道他不会介意,你也应该先问问他。

2-Reliability 可靠

A true friend is someone you can rely on.
真朋友是靠得住的。

When you make a promise you will always honor it, and when you know you won’t be able to stick to your promise it’s best to be honest and tell your friend that you can’t keep to the promise.
你许下的诺言必须付诸实行。如果你没把握,就应该老老实实的告诉朋友你不能承诺。

If you say that you’ll do something or be somewhere at a certain date and time, then be there no matter what.
如果你答应某时某日做什么,那你就应言出必行。

3-Respect 尊重

A true friend respects time, property and beliefs.
真朋友尊重别人的时间、财产和信仰。

Time is respected by not wasting it. Be punctual for appointments and let your friend know if you’ll be late or can’t make it at all.
不浪费时间就是尊重时间。要准时赴约,如你会迟到或缺席,应预先告诉他。

Property is respected by not damaging it. Treat other people’s belongings with care and love.
尊重财产就是不损坏财产。爱惜别人的财产。

Beliefs are respected by not judging. If you know that your friend has certain beliefs and morals, respect them, even if you don’t agree with them.
不批判人家的信仰即是尊重。只要你知道朋友的信仰和道德观念就应予以尊重,尽管你不同意。

4- Bros Before Hoes 不重色轻友

Please excuse the expression but I found it very fitting.
请容许我这样说,因为我觉得很合适。

Choosing bros before hoes means that you don’t choose a girl or a boy over your friend. Don’t cancel your plans with your friend or let your friend down just because you want to be with someone you’re interested in.
不重色轻友即是不把异性优先于朋友。不要因为你看上了某人而取消友人的约会或令他失望。

If the guy or girl you are interested in is really special to you, you can always ask your friend first and they’ll likely understand. But a true friend doesn’t drop you to be with someone else.
如果你特别喜欢某某男生或女生,你尽可以告诉友人,你朋友是会明白的。真朋友是不会不顾你而去约会异性的。

5-Selfless 无私

A true friend will sacrifice their own comfort or happiness and put you first. 真朋友会为你牺牲自己的舒坦或幸福。

They are selfless and would not do something for financial or material gain if they knew that it would have a negative effect on your life.
真朋友是无私的,不会为金钱物质利益而伤害你的。

6-Loyalty 忠心

A true friend you will stand up for you when you need it. Also when you don’t ask them to.
真朋友会在你需要时支持你,就算你没提出请求。

A true friend is not for sale and will never do anything that will compromise your success or happiness.
千金难买真朋友,真朋友是不会妨碍你成功或幸福的。

7-Patience 忍耐

A true friend is patient with you. They are understanding when things need time to change or get better and won’t judge you even when you make the same mistake over and over. As long as you’re making the effort to get better.
真朋友能对你忍耐。他明白你需要时间去改变或做好自己,尽管你一错再错,只要你是尽力改善,他是不会批判你的。

8- Laugh Together Cry Together 同甘共苦

A true friend is not a fair-weather friend. They are there for  you in good times and in bad times. A true friend also shares their own success with you when they achieve it.
真朋友不仅是共欢乐的,而是苦乐与共。真朋友会跟你共享其成。

9-Constructive Criticism 有建设性的批评

A true friend is not scared to tell you what you’re doing wrong . They’re not scared to seriously intervene if they see that something is seriously bad for you or if you’re going down the wrong path.But they always support their criticism with advice that can help you improve.
真朋友不怕指出你的错,如果看到某些事情明显对你不利,或是知道你做错了,真朋友不怕认真的介入予以阻止。

Don’t just say “You’re going to go bankrupt with your new business plan”. Tell them why you think their new business plan will fail. E.g. “You’re putting all your money into something that is not real, or there is an expiry date on the products you’re buying and I don’t think you’ll be able to sell even 10% of what you’re buying”.
不要只是说:“你这新生意计划会让你破产的”。应跟他们说明你为何认为新生意计划会失败。例如:“你把全部资金投到不切实的地方” 或说“你所购买的产品是有期限的,我想你连一成也卖不出去呢”。

10- Forgiveness 宽恕

A true friend has the ability to forgive. Everyone is human and we all make mistakes at times. We may even break one or more of these golden rules of being a true friend, but if you realize that you messed up and you really show that you’re sorry and try to make things right, a true friend will be able to forgive you. (Just don’t mess up in the same way again because there is a limit to forgiveness).
真朋友能宽恕你。人人有时难免都会犯错的。我们甚至把这些交友的金石良言都犯上几条,但只要你知错能改,真朋友一定会原谅你的。(恕道也有尽头,所以我们切记不要一错再错啊。)

 (感谢热心网友helenakira提供的翻译稿)

 

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  • AmandaYI 说:

    又谁做得到?我为什么遇不到可以遵守这些准则的人?

    2011-05-06 22:11 回复 支持(0) 反对(0) 沙发
  • yeh, it's really hard!

    2011-05-07 11:21 回复 支持(0) 反对(0) 板凳
  • zalaffi 说:

    我就是这样对朋友的。

    2011-05-07 22:09 回复 支持(1) 反对(0) 地板
  • 王骁 说:

    A true friend has the ability to forgive. Everyone is human and we all make mistakes at times. We may even break one or more of these golden rules of being a true friend, but if you realize that you messed up and you really show that you’re sorry and try to make things right, a true friend will be able to forgive you. (Just don’t mess up in the same way again because there is a limit to forgiveness).

    2011-05-08 10:34 回复 支持(1) 反对(0) 4 楼
  • 王骁 说:

    property['prɔpəti] n.财产,所有物,地产,性质,道具sacrifice['sækrifais] n.牺牲,祭品,供奉;vt.牺牲,亏本出售,供奉;vi....compromise['kɔmprəmaiz] n. 妥协, 折衷, 折衷案;vt. 妥协处理, 危害;v...fair-weather adj. 只适用于好天气的, 不可共患难

    2011-05-08 10:35 回复 支持(0) 反对(0) 5 楼
  • 呵呵

    2011-05-10 15:40 回复 支持(0) 反对(0) 6 楼
  • compromise妥协;sacrifice牺牲;fair-weather不能患难的;property财产

    2011-05-10 17:07 回复 支持(0) 反对(0) 7 楼
  • 就算你做到了,如果你的朋友不把它当一回事并伤害你。。。该怎么办呢?

    2011-05-10 20:58 回复 支持(0) 反对(0) 8 楼
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