Women, did you know there are 12 things that you do that man tend to hate most of all? What are these 12 things that women should avoid? They are:
1. Not Sticking to Agreements 不守约定
When agreements are made, women tend to break them or change them to suit their needs, no matter what the situation is.
2. Keeping Their Feelings 隐藏自己的感受
It's stereotypical to believe women share automatically how they are feeling. Actually, women will hold in their feelings until they are asked often enough that they spill what is on their minds.
3. Try to Change Their Men 试图改造自己的男人
Women often understand men but don't agree with the way they are. Women try to change them to suit their needs or leave them alone completely.
4. Mate Comparison 比较伴侣
Women, sometimes unknowingly, compare their current mate to their ex in terms of negative aspects. Comparisons should be made when it's favorable.
5. Belittling His Hobbies 贬损他的嗜好
Everyone has a hobby or two that their mate doesn't like. However, you should never keep them from doing it. Also, never demand that they take an interest in your hobby. The message you send is that your hobbies are much more important than his and that's not the message you should be sending.
6. Gossiping 八卦
While it would seem to stroke the man's ego, men don't like women gossiping about them, whether it's good or bad.
7. Nagging 唠叨
Men do not like it when a woman constantly nags them about getting things done whether or not it's with good intentions.
8. Interruption 打断谈话
Believe it or not, a man needs to talk to so it's best you listen with an open mind and not try to interrupt. Men do not like it when a woman listens but looks impatient to talk too. If you interrupt him with something else not relevant to the current conversation, you could create tension.
9. Solution Oriented vs. Conversation Oriented 解决问题型 vs. 交谈型
Men like to get to the bottom of things so don't get upset if they don't want to talk for hours about a particular subject.
10. Beauty Conscious 臭美
Men do not like it when a woman spends a lot of time looking at herself in the mirror but still looks the same as she always does.
11. Paranoia 偏执狂
Men don't like it when a woman gets paranoid about the way she looks. If your man doesn't like the way you look, they wouldn't be with you.
12. Insecure/Jealously 多疑或嫉妒
Believe it or not, men do not like jealousy, even a small bit. This is especially true if you are out on a date together and catch their eye wander. You make a wise crack about it. This actually annoys them very much.